Nasihat Pada Anak-Anakku, Ceritera Pohon Semalu

Ambillah iktibar dari cerita yang di sampaikan,

Pada suatu hari, Rasulullah s. a. w berjalan-jalan bersama puteri baginda,
Saidatina Fatimah r. a. Setibanya mereka berdua di bawah sebatang pohon 
tamar, Fatimah terpijak pohon semalu, kakinya berdarah lalu mengadu     
kesakitan.                                                             
                                                                         
Fatimah mengatakan kepada bapanya apalah gunanya pohon semalu itu berada
di situ dengan nada yang ceria. Rasulullah dengan tenang berkata kepada 
puteri kesayangannya itu bahawasanya pohon semalu itu amat berkait rapat
dengan wanita. Fatimah terkejut. Rasulullah menyambung kata-katanya lagi.
Para wanita hendaklah mengambil pengajaran daripada pohon semalu ini dari
4 aspek.                                                               
                                                                         
Pertama, pohon semalu akan kuncup apabila disentuh. Ini boleh diibaratkan

bahawa wanita perlu mempunyai perasaan malu (pada tempatnya).           
                                                                         
Kedua, semalu mempunyai duri yang tajam untuk mempertahankan dirinya. Oleh
itu, wanita perlu tahu mempertahankan diri dan maruah sebagai seorang   
wanita muslim.                                                         
                                                                         
Ketiga, semalu juga mempunyai akar tunjang yang sangat kuat dan mencengkam
bumi. Ini bermakna wanita solehah hendaklah mempunyai keterikatan yang 
sangat kuat dengan Allah Rabbul Alamin.                                 
                                                                         
Dan akhir sekali, semalu akan kuncup dengan sendirinya apabila senja   
menjelang. Oleh itu, para wanita sekalian, kembalilah ke rumahmu apabila
waktu semakin senja.                                                   
                                                                         
Ambillah pengajaran dari semalu walau pun ia hanya sepohon tumbuhan yang
kecil.                                                              

ihsan http://mumuyani.blogspot.com/2012_01_01_archive.html

Autism : What Is Autism Symptom TO Child

Autism
What is Autism? What is the symptom? I would like to share this info may it help some parents to understand a bit about the symptom.

The term autism comes from the word autos which mean self and irme  mean flow. Autism is a disorder of thought, communication, interpersonal relationships and behavior .

Factors Of Autism

•             The exact cause of autism is unknown.

•             Some theories say autism stems from

1.            Genetics

•             Babies born twins-one eggs are likely to autistic disorder.

2.            Environment

•             Effect of virus-rubella, toxo, herpes, is not nutritious diet, bleeding, poisoning effects: brain function of babies affected

•             Digestive problems. More than 60% of autistic children have a poor digestive system

•             Nervous breakdown - a failure of one of the brain function

Characteristics of Autism

1)            Communication and Language

o             Language development is slow or no

o             Looks like the hearing impaired and ignore what is said by others.

o             Failure to use the word, e.g. 'I', 'be' and have a problem saying the obvious.

o             The spoken word is not in accordance with the questions of others to him.

o             To imitate the verses or songs without understanding its meaning.

o             They just love to talk and sometimes talk too much in a particular topic.

o             Spontaneous conversation is rarely started, while their speech without meaning.

2)            Social Interaction

•             No eye contact

•             Love to be alone

•             Not engage in activities

•             They act like people do not listen.

•             Physical contact, such as touch, waving, gestures, smiles and is not used

3) Sensory Disorders 

• Sensitive to the touch          
• Do not like to hold or hug          
• Sensitive to loud sounds and covers their ears          
• Like kissing and licking toys or other objects 
• Less sensitive to the pain. 
• There is no fear of danger.

4) Pattern Of Playing

•             Do not like playing with friends .

•             Playing the odd way

•             Like the objects that rotate, like a fan.

•             Obsessed to an object to be carried everywhere

5) Conduct

•             Hyperactivity or hypo active

•             Perform the same actions or movements and repetitive as wiggle, patted the hand, circling,        

               walking, paced.

•             Do not like the changes.

•             Sometimes it can sit without any reaction or without doing something.

•             Typically display negative behavior.

6) Emotional

•             Raging without control if not dealt with entirely.

•             Often angry, laughing, and crying for no reason.

•             Attacking anyone nearby with his emotions when disturbed.

•             Sometimes injuring themselves or friends.

•             Not sympathy & empathy for others.

•             Significant discipline problems in children of this category, but they are less affected by praise or other social reinforces.  Time out is usually not an effective way to reduce negative behavior because they really like to be alone.

 Types of Autism

1.            Overweight (Excessive)

•             Children with autism show aggressive behavior.

2.  Reduced (Deficit)

•             Children with autism show passive behavior

DIETARY

•             Individuals who suffer from autism are likely to have difficulty digesting certain proteins such as    gluten.

•             Scientific studies in the United States and England have found a very high level of peptide in the content of the urine of children suffering from autism. This may be due to incomplete digestion of peptides from foods containing gluten and casein.

•             Gluten can be obtained from wheat, oat and rye

•             casein was obtained from dairy ingredients

 Incomplete digestion of peptide and peptide may lead to excess absorption delay  in  bio-chemical processes and neuroregulatori brain, which interfere with brain function

•             Until now there has been no information on why these proteins cannot be digested.

•             So how to solve the problem of neurological and gastrointestinal damage was only to exclude proteins from the diet of children diagnosed with autism.

Suitable material:

•             Brown Rice Flour - Basic Body / Green Gourmet

•             Potato starch - Green Gourmet

•             Tapioca Starch

•             Arrowroot flour

•             Xanthum gum - Green Gourmet

•             Aluminum-free baking powder - Green Gourmet

•             Rice Milk

•             Milk-free margarine / milk free margarine - available at most supermarkets

•             "Vita Soy" - margarine from soy oil

•             Flax-seed meal - to replace margarine

•             Gluten-free sweets

•             tamari sauce - to replace the soy sauce (wheat and alcohol-free check)

•             "Gorilla Munch" - gluten-free cereal suggestions

•             carob or chocolate chips cookies

•             biscuits "burbone" from Tesco in the UK

•             "Vance Darifree" - to replace milk

•             Pineapple jam - can be made with pineapple and honey

•             Spaghetti rice @ corn - from Basic Body

•             brown rice, wild rice, bee hoon brown rice - from Green Gourmet & Body Basics.

•             Fried chicken - use carotene oil & rice flour

The diagnosis from birth until  5 years

                 

            Age 0-6 months

• Baby seems about to cry too quiet
• Very sensitive, rapid disturbed / undisturbed
• Motion of the foot & hand-over, especially when taking a bath
• Not "exhaustive babbling"
• No social smile at age 10 weeks
• Motor development was normal

  6-12 months

•             The baby is quiet and rarely seen crying

•             Too sensitive

•             Hand & foot movement is excessive

•             It is difficult to cuddle / support

•             Not exhaustive babbling

•             Biting the hand & body others excessively

•             There is no social smile

•             Difficult to look at the unknown

         Motor development was normal

               

12-2 years

•             Rigid when cuddle

•             Did not respond in the normal game responded by normal children

•             Not saying a word

•             Not interested in dolls

•             Noting his own hands

•             Start to look gross & fine motor development through the experience of the ordinary.

•             May not be able to receive liquid food.

               

2-3 years

•             Do not like socializing

•             Seeing people as "objects"

•             Limited eye contact

•             Attracted to the ordinary and preferred only

•             Rigid when cuddle

4-5 years

•             Strange noises (high or flat)

•             Self harm

Thanks to Friends who love to share this great info for our knowledge. May we have the same love to autism child.

ADD & ADHD : Hyperactive Child Disorder

What is ADD and ADHD behavior?. Why That person is acting strange?. They might be having this symptom.

A) Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)

is the behavior of children who show their lack of concentration on something

Features of the ADD Child

-Often fail to give careful attention
-does not comply with the instructions and failed to complete school work
-Problem to organize tasks and activities
-wanted to get a sense of completion when making an assignment.
-avoid, dislike, or objected to perform a task
-Always losing things
-Easy to change focus
-Easy to forget

B) Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

is a neurobehavioral developmental disorder.

ADHD children often show behaviors that are found in two main categories:

1) Hyperactivity
-Frequent moving hands or feet
-floppy seat.
-Always leave the seat while in class.
-Always running here or there to love or to climb
-Often have difficulty playing or doing leisure activities quietly.
-Still a lot of talking
-Often active


2) Impulsive behavior
-Always give complete answers before the questions raised
-Lack of patient and encounter problems when they queue
-Often interfere with or interrupt conversations or activities of others.
-Often make wrong judgments and prone to accidents



Valid Cause ADD or ADHD

1. Neurological factors
     imbalances or lack of neurotransmitter chemicals to help connect the messages through the brain to help a person focus, drive and monitor the activities of their motivation

2. Toxic factor
   - Lead poisoning in the blood serum of infants
   - Food additives - color additives and preservatives

3. Genetic factors
   - 25 percent to 35 percent of ADD or ADHD is genetically inherited by both parents or other relatives

4. Excessive sugar intake

5. Drugs and medicines in excess



The  Treatment

1. medications

It have been found to have some positive short term benefits in dealing with the symptoms of ADD & ADHD
But All of Them have potentially harmful side effects.
Standard and Poor medications Ritalin, Adderall and Concerta (banned in Canada).
Dexedrine is typically prescribed to patients who do not respond well to Ritalin.

Pharmacotherapy

    Methylphenidate (MPH).
    Desipramine.
    Dextroamphetamine.
    Pemoline.
    


2. Therapy

focusing more useful to their daily work and interaction with other children.Psychosocial treatment of ADHD has included a number of behavioral strategies such as contingency management such as those utilising; point/token reward systems, timeout, response cost. Clinical behavior therapy (parent, teacher, or both are taught to use contingency management procedures), and cognitive-behavioral treatment (e.g., self-monitoring, verbal self-instruction, problem-solving strategies, self-reinforcement). Cognitive-behavioral treatment has not been found to yield beneficial effects in children withADHD. In contrast, clinical behavior therapy, parent training, and contingency management have produced beneficial effects.




ADD & ADHD Diet

food allergies and nutritional deficiencies
Sugar
soft drinks
sugary cereals or
chocolate
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First, what NOT to eat for TWO WEEKS:

1) NO Dairy PRODUCTS, especially  cow's milk. This is the single most IMPORTANT restrictions. Instead try Almond milk, Rice milk, or Better Than Milk. Drink water instead of milk. In fact, drink lots of water. The brain is about 80% water, and increasing your water intake to 7 to 10 glasses per day might be helpful all by itself. Sodas, Gatorade, Teas,Ice's, etc., Do not count as water. Water counts as water.
2) NO YELLOW FOODS. Especially Corn or Squash. Bananas are white. Do not eat the peel.
3) NO JUNK FOODS. If it comes in a cellophane wrapper, do not eat it.
4) NO FRUIT juices. Too much sugar content. One small glass of apple juice has the sugar content of eight apples. Later on you can have juice, but dilute it with water 50/50.
5) CUT SUGAR INTAKE BY 90%. If you can, cut it down to zero. Sugar is in just about everything, but give it a try. Do your best without going crazy.
6) CUT BY 90% chocolate. No more than a single piece, once a week.
7) NO NutraSweet. None. Period.
8) NO processed MEATS and NO MSG. Only get meats with labels That say, "Turkey and Water," etc. If the meat has chemicals listed That you can not pronounce, do not buy it.
9) Fried FOODS CUT BY 90%.
10) AVOID FOOD COLORINGS WHENEVER POSSIBLE. See if your child is sensitive to any particular colors, such as Reds, Yellows, etc. For now, though, avoid all if possible.

Features by Age Level

Early child-

- A robust level of activity
- Talking is not stopping
- Difficulty focusing
- It's hard to play quietly or secretly
- Impulsive and easily distracted
- Low achievers in academics.


Middle Child-

- Restless extreme
- Difficult to sit in place
- Default in the work and do not update
- Failure to follow instructions
- Failed to create assignments
- Low in academic achievement.



Adolescent-

- Can not sit still and constantly feel impatient.
- Difficult to engage in any activity
- Is often forgetful and unable to concentrate
- No patient in the work
- Often involved in dangerous activities-Have low academic performance



Adult-

- Always restless and agitated and could not sit still
- Difficult to engage in activities such as sitting.
- Frequent changes from one activity to another activity which is not complete
- Often distracting.
- Often trying to escape from the tasks that have little spontaneous movement.
- Difficulty in communication
- Frequent changes in employment.
- Difficulty controlling anger
- Working memory is weak.


Usually also have other disorders.
26% have another MP (later development, autistic)
43% had mental problems and emotional distress.
20-40% of serious antisocial disorder
29-30%-dyslexic
Now the population of children with ADHD & ADD is estimated to exceed 7 million people worldwide


When we understand the problems due to those ADD and ADHD person we can understand why he is so finicky. so do not scold them
If what they have done is wrong. we must teach them to make things right.


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My Daughter : Joy Of Schooling In Tabika Kemas 2010

On 10 November 2010 My daughter Nurina Amani has graduate from her Tabika Kemas schooling.The event took place at 'Dewan Komuniti Taman Melati' with over 1000 of people attending.
After this she will enter the new phase of education in primary school. For 2 years been under tabika kemas pre-school program i can see her achievement and self preparation for the 2nd phase of education is adequate. Thanks to the trainers and AJK involve in this pre-school program for our kids future. Thank you to Pn Rohana Abd Rahman and Auntie Mah who always been dedicate their life for this kids.

KEMAS preschool program known as Child Guidance Parks (TABIKA), for children aged between 4 to 6 years. The aim is to encourage the development of social, emotional, intellectual and physical as well as providing a firm foundation for children before formal education in primary schools.

Concept

The implementation is based on the concept of TABIKA non-formal education by learning through play. The concept was later extended to 3M skills (Reading, Writing and Counting)


Background

Community Development Department or more synonymous among the general public as KEMAS is an extension of the Adult Education Division was established in 1961, through a cabinet paper Bil.385/25/60 with main focus on the "eradication of illiteracy."

By the year 1977, the movement to eradicate illiteracy has been enhanced with the introduction of the concept of 'Functional Literacy' by UNESCO as an effort to make the movement to eradicate poverty as a strategy to develop rural communities.

Following the launch of "New Economic Policy" (1970), the Division has changed its name to the Community Development Department (Kemas) with an emphasis on community development efforts in the true sense.

On 11nov2010 tabika kemas fasa 4 Seri Gombak year 6 student were taken to Zoo Negara for the annual year end visit program. Each of the student are enjoying themselves exploring the world of the animal. It's a one day trip that was joyful to them.

On 13Nov 2010 morning an annual sports even of tabika kemas been held at fasa 4 Seri Gombak community field. I can see through the face of all kids they are exhausted but joy. And this joyful feeling make them strong through out the day. Even just a small community but the event went well and create a better relationship between the teacher , kids and parents.

Six Type Of Medication Needed When Having A Baby

Oh my, the baby is sick. This is a normal situation faced by most parents.A child immunisation is in growing up process. So it's easily for them to get infected.Even we try hard to avoid it sometimes things is inevitable. What's is your preparation having a baby in a house to overcome this situation. I am not a doctor but reading article on this advice is valuable. The article was written by a paediatrician. According to the article there are 6 type of medicine we should kept by having a baby in a house. And the medication is easy to get at the nearest pharmacy. 

1. Pain Release/fever For a 6 months old and below acetaminophen/Panadol syrup is safest medication for them to release pain or fever. Avoid giving Ibuprofen unless advice by a doctor. Because ibuprofen effect the metabolism of kidney. An example brands is panadol syrup 

2. Antihistamine Oral Effective to cure running nose or itchy eyes from allergy or to cure the reflect of allergy to other medication. This medication can cause doziness. Find out more about this medication here http://www.allergyescape.com/best-antihistamines.html 3. Saline Nose Drop/Nasal spray When they are having a difficulty to breath due to nose blocked (snuffles) Due to mucus collect in nose.Drop of this salt water make them easy to breath. 4. Electrolyte Remedy re hydration solution can solve a dehydration problem such as vomiting and diarrhea. The medication usually is an energy drink contain of sugar,salt,mineral and others.

5. Hydrocortisone Cream An anti inflammation cream that can be used for light rashes skin to eczema or insect bites. But it is better to consult a paedetrician if it is a cause looks like rashes for we afarid it might be impetigo . A light rashes can be treated with calamine lotion http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Calamine 6. Antibiotik Balm. To avoid virus/bacteria infection on small injury. 

To all of my friends out there I hope this info can benefit us on growing up our babies. And remember we have to pay an extra attention to babies. If you would love to know more about the medication ad way to use it visit this website http://www.nlm.nih.gov

Why Am I Blogging This Blog?

Hi all, Hope you are doing great with your life.It's been quite a while now I've

been blogging this blog. Several Post have been published . Some are info sharing ,

Some are tips and some of my life journal been categorized in this blog. Hope some

of the info and tips can help somebody finding their interest and solution.


Somebody been asking to me why do you blog this blog site.? And i am also wondering

and said to my self why do I start blogging ?  Am I a Pro blogger?. Surely I

am not. Am i some kind of specialize or expert in certain field? Well i can tell

you this , neither a specialist nor and expert i am . Just a normal person, family

a father of two daughter. A husband to a lovely wife. A son to a parent. That's

what i am .As far as i can understand i am living a normal life like others.

working 9 to  5 . Finding the objective of life and happiness to a family.Then

why should i blog ?

I am blogging this blog because i feel the need of sharing , as sharing is for

caring. When i am no longer needed by the world this will be a guide , a journal

for my legacy to reminisce of my existence. Remembering of my love to them, to the

world.  A child is the future to the world, like us they are the community of

the world. Either our future world become better or worse depends on how they have

been develop in growing up process. Sharing our knowledge and info is an endless

task in this life.


Once we was a kid,a toddler, teenage, an adult. Then we become a parent and life

move on. We've gone through all the phase and we surely will understand the nature

of life.No parents would want unhappy ending.If there's a mistake believe me we

have try our best as a a parent as human being. Don't detest us as you wouldn't

know what's your story.

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IS IT PARENT OF A STUPID CHILD?

Hi parents, have you ever heard this phrases “stupid child, I didn’t teach you that” or something like this “Dumb, why don’t you stop crying”. And many more negative words while scolding a child. I don’t really blame you guys because sometimes we can’t control our emotion when we are tired, stress, fatigue and those words came out from our mouth unintentionally. But try avoiding using harsh or negative words because the child is in a learning process. They might imitate us. As parent we should remind ourselves we are their role model. You know that 80% of water contain in our body and how the molecule can be affected by sound and words. This had been explained by Dr Emoto and also included sometimes ago in this blog. No matter what stupid things done by our child they are in the learning state and we as parent also still learning. They’re still lot more to learn about life and the thing is it will never ends.
If we feel that our child are dumb, they are the dummies well actually we are dumber. Just think back when we are their age, are we as as smart as today. And for today are we that smart? What we should do is teach our child to do things the correct way, guide them not scolding with a harsh words.
Children are our future, what type of future do we want? In life we learn lot of thing from mistake. Mistake don’t make us stupid, it progress us to think. When parent overcome a mistake from reiterate we are actually progressing in our learning state. Creating a development for our future.
The analogy is if we are parent of our child than we are also a child to our parent. If we fell that we don’t do well in our life should we blame our parent for not raising us well? And so is our child would they blame us for not raising them well if they don’t do great in their life. So it’s either we are parent of the stupid (our child) or we are the stupid as a parent thinking that we are better than our child. We have to learn together as family for a better life.
From parent to parent have you come across this situation where by some other parents telling you this, “don’t do this, or your child will... blaa… bla…. Bla….And you thought well they know a lot, that’s a great parenting tips, perfect parenting are they? Is it a positive parenting way? Well as for me don’t imitate others. Be ourselves in a positive way. Some advice or tips can be taken but not all are suite with your parenting way. Be wise, our lifestyle and necessity are not the same for all parents. We as a human are different in our own way. The way of parenting may be adaptable for certain family as it suit with their life style, the way of their thinking and more. But may not suit with our life style and thinking. We are perfectly parenting in our own way as we know ourselves better and we know our family better. As long as we are parenting the positive way.

The conclusion is there’s no stupidity in positive parenting act. We have our own believes and principal that lead us with guide to live in this world, use it wisely. Follow it and we are parenting the right way.
I am not saying don’t ever study or taken advice from other parents or classes or books; learn from it and adapt what is suite with your parenting way. Don’t suffer yourself for something that you can’t meet.
Well others may have their own idea and this is my idea. No human are perfect and we ought to lots more of parenting mistake as we can’t see the future. Nobody knows what true or not in future so learn to know yourself and your family. I am still learning and so do my family. Happy parenting folks. Love our family, our children the legacy of our future. Want them to do the best start learning to the best for yourself.

What She Has Whooping Cough Or Croup ?

It has almost been  a week now and i feel sorry for her, my baby girl. So pity looking at her coughing like an adult. she's only 3months old but have to feel the whooping cough pain.Although this condition is something unwanted even we tried to avoid every cause it is uncontrollable.She still  have it almost a week now. We had taken her to the paediatrician and taken a prescription of antibiotic .This whooping cough or croup makes her lost the lovely sleep and feeding appetite. She even vomit sometimes after feeds.

Whooping cough or best known as pertussis ( the microorganism name ) happen when the bacteria infect of the  below airway breathing parts  .The cough sounds persistently and like the person are chocking.Usually child are immune to this symptom after taken immunisation injection between 6 months to six years old.Pertussis will cause symptom of  flu fever for a week or two and after that the cough be getting worsen and a child will be having a fast breathing.This can cause lack of oxygen intake in inhale process. Pertussis can also lead to seizure and encephalopathy (brain inflammation) in the young. Actually pertussis can be severe not only to a child but also to adults as the persistent coughing can cause lost of breath.Seek for doctor advice if you having a cough more than 2 weeks or have consistent for longer period of time. As for a child bring them immediately to paediatrician . An antibiotic treatment might work out for the case. If it still persistent get an extra treatment for our love one.

ahhchumm...

Another type of coughing is Croup ( also known as laryngotracheobronchitis). It sounds like barking cough and hoarseness.It is a virus infection of the upper airway.It started with flu fever and worsen during night. Croup usually gone after a few days and need not a special treatment.Croup can be recognized by inhale hot water steamed and then stay in a cold place.Some specialist believe that  by expansion and contraction of airway can resolved cough. If it doesn't than it is better to seek for treatment to avoid pneumonia or asthma.

Now it has been for two days my baby taken the antibiotic treatment and her condition looks getting better . We hope it is not something severe infecting her.Although I still stay late up at night to observe her condition.

Baby Feeder easy Baby Milk Warmer Sleekly By IIamo

IIAMO flow

Hi too all parent. I am having a problem here. My new baby is 3 month old now. My wife now have to start working.Since birth my baby is breastfeeding.Since my wife have to start working so we have to teach her
to feeding using feeder bottle. The problem is even she still a child she have her preference. she does not want to feed using bottle. On the first day my wife start working my mother have to feed her using
spoon. She don't want to feed either using bottle nor syringe. Actually we have prepare for this situation . we have bought different kind of feeder from lot of brand such as NUK,Avent,Bumble bee and NUBY.All those feeder have different teat with anti colic and no BPA (Bis phenol A) features.Some teat with a short neck ,long neck and many type.I figure that the problem is not because of the bottle but the teat.Today we bought a new feeder by MAM.Changing the teat

type for my baby.MAM designers have created a silicone teat which babies instinctively like.And now the problem solve.Do you know that it is not good to boil the breastfeeding bottle?. Because of the BPA effect.
While browsing through Internet searching for the correct bottle with my wife we stumble into this attractive feeder by IIAMO. The product IIAMO GO self warm bottle design by one of the famous designer MR KARIM RASHID.IIamo was founded by RASMUS SCHMIEGELOW and NIKOLAJ LEONHARD-HJORTH both are parent at first having the same problem like us.Finding a feeder so baby would want to feed.
What's great about the bottle is IIAMO GO feeder came with a self warm feature.So no hustle on warming up the milk and no BPA cause for sure..Even the bottle itself is anti BPA.And the bottle design sleekly looks came with an attractive color and  it is stunning.

But IIAMO product only distributed in Denmark.We been looking for it through the net in Malaysian couldn't find any. I try to buy from eBay but the nearest is in Australia but they will not ship outside.

See how the self warm features work here ....IIAMO GO

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Food Allergy And Your Child

Do we know that we can be allergic to foods.It is the same to our child.When food allergy happen to a child rashes will appear on your child body,they will vomiting,feeling discomfort and crying non stop..
Parents need to be aware as food allergy might happen when we start introducing solid foods to the child nutrition.Sometimes food allergy are not so serious. sometimes this allergy tend to disappear when a child grow.If allergy towards cow's milk, soy and wheat.

Usually it will the disappears when a child growing old.This is different when food allergic happen due to nuts, seeds and seafood as it might happens for a longer period of times .it is advisable to start introducing solid food in your child dietary when they reach 6 month year old.Allergies symptom caused by histamine (a chemical that is released from cell under the skin, nose,eyes where it start feeling itchy.The reaction cause irritation to the skin, swelling of the mouth, vomiting and diarrhea and an inefficient and runny nose. Severe reactions called anaphylaxis such as hard to breath due to swell in throat.Non tolerate of lactose causes sensitive stomach and intestines due to the body can not assimilate sugar found in milk.Bloated stomach and diarrhea may occur until the body to remove the food but no severe reaction of the immune system will minimize the risk of it happens.Report shows dietary allergies in children are not associated with maternal diet or delay the introduction to solid food . Recommended by experts you need to breastfeed your child
from birth up to 6 month old.common types of allergies such as nuts, eggs, and cow milk. Serious allergic reactions are like seafood, soy, fish, wheat and sesame.
If your child experience a serious allergic reaction immediately see the doctor.
So at the time parent start introducing solid foods to a child the dietary we should be observed,monitor how the food been given is it raw or cooks and type of foods given.Avoid risk to your child's food allergy by knowing the type of nutrition that cause allergies to your child.

Cosy Place Restaurant Stress Release by Dinner

Do you know that having a comfort dinner can release your stress and fatigue after a hard day? . Having a hard day for both of us managing parenting skill while both of our daughter where sick,today they are getting better.So fatigue so we decided to treat ourselves for a dinner.Great things to do releasing all the stress is having a fine dining in a cosy place. Well sure fine dining need extra budget.
It's all worth it having it with the one you love. Need a dining place not so cramped and feels like dining at home we choose this nice cosy restaurant.Located just near by our house.
First impression is great . Stepping inside feels like entering an English type of home. With a nice music been played. This is what we are looking for a cosy ambiance and versatile choice of food.

my daughter watching the chef cooks

Need to mentioned that me and my wife aren't so faddy. Cosy Place Restaurant located in jalan wangsa delima 2A, suburban centre 111,section 5 wangsa maju,k.l.
This is our first time here in this restaurant and the welcome are warm.As stepping inside the first glance you can see the kitchen visible through a window glass showing tidiness
and cleanliness of their kitchen and also the chef and co chef workers.So not to be hesitate.We choose to sit near the fire place a section so comfort and cozy.My wife having a Singapore fried mee hoon while my elder daughter as always fish N chip.Fast service and excellent by the waiter,having no trouble with the baby as she feel comfort we have our dinner comfortably.Not to mentioned the prices are appropriate.
This restaurant will be another favorite in our family dinner place after DOME and  sakura crystal restaurant. To all the waiter and the owner thank you for a nice dinner and cosy place.
My next plan is to bring my sister here having their fine BBQ beef ribs at lower price.

Cosy Place Restaurant

Setapak 27-29, Jalan Wangsa Delima 2A, KL Suburban Centre III, Section 5, Wangsa Maju, Kuala Lumpur

53300

Malaysia

GPS : 3.199374, 101.744578

Oil, Fats In Parenting Dietary

Oils make us fat? that's a fact. We have been told to reduce taking oily food or eliminate oils or fats intake
in our diet to maintain good health and stay slim.Some of us did not bother so much about their figure but surely they want a good health.As parent we would want
to avoid obesity in our child. Obesity does happen to child if we as a parent did not controlled their diet. There is a significant increase in overweight cases in the world.
Want to know either you are part of it? You can calculate your own BMI ( body mass index ) here http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/.
The true story of fats is that it is not totally bad. Fats are compound built from fatty acids. There are fats from good oils that a body needs in order to maintain optimum health and prevent illnesses.
So if we think we prevents fats from oil to our child is good what about he good parts of fats. Healing fats are needed to perform many crucial cell functions. healing fats help to support immune function,improve skin and hair condition,reduce blood cholesterol ( so i thought fats increase blood cholesterol,so totally prevent oily foods ), maintain blood pressure,
prevent risk of heart attack and stroke, maintain healthy joint function,protect body organs,help brain and nerves transmission as well as hormone production. Healing fats benefit are almost endless.
Lack of healing fats causes frequent flu,cough and cold,hormonal imbalance ,emotional problem,metabolism disorder,skin and hair disorder ( eczema psoriasis,poor would healing and hair loss), low energy level, weakened vision and also poor learning ability.
What best to get this healing fats ? take a natural healing oil as parts of wholesome plant based diet. Get a plant based oil as part of you and your family diet.
Coconut oil is one of good oil with rich healing fats.  Put it in your diet list . So even eat fat, still look thin. Another plant based is like a corn  oil or sunflower oil, wheatgerm oil,flax seed oil that can help hormonal balance and also EPO ( evening primrose oil) effective for weight reduction.
Virgin coconut oil has been called the healthy dietary oil on earth. It can boost immunity, lowers cholesterol contain,regulate blood sugar minimising insulin spikes and fats storage,improve insulin sensitivity and glucose tolerance avoiding diabetics and enhance nutrients absorption.
It is good to know what the best oil to include i our dietary rights. so start it earlier with our self and earlier for our child. Happy cooking.

Parent And Child, Limits Your Computer And Internet Usage

Living in this new era everything is moving on as fast as it could be. Now is the world of the computer, the internet and all type of gadget. Parents are exposing this new age thing to their children as early as possible. It would also help their children in growing development and some of it helps lessen parenting task. Include me, my 6 year old daughter have been exposed to the usage of computer since 2 years old. At the beginning stage is more likely showing a video. Past over the time child are more likely know how to use a simple application of the computer such as playing games and playing their movie. Now my daughters   know how   to browse the internet. Well surely there will be pro and con on exposing the internet to a child. Negatively because of exploited and unrated website.   But not to worry as the expert and application have their own security to avoid this negative effect.

What I would like to discuss is the computer and internet negative effect on health. This health effect problem can crucial a child and parent. Do we know that sitting to long using a computer and internet can cause death? You should know about this health effect, a passage from an informative e mail I received.

 Lately you hear some webmasters attacked by various diseases so that there are so critical to have them admitted to hospital for monitoring his health. In fact some of them have reached the critical stage until the attack of angina stroke.

Many people still do not realize that sitting too long at the computer or working for hours passively on a chair to make the muscles of our body feels stiff, hard and painful eye. In fact, other than minor complaints such other hidden threats that pose a risk to health.

New Zealand Medical Journal in a recent issue reported a study of the New Zealand Institute of Medical Research showed that office workers who spend too long sitting at their desks a higher risk of blood clots. Researchers found that one third of patients admitted to hospital suffering from blood vein thrombosis (DVT) or blood clot, are those who spend hours at a computer.

Disease Deep vein Thrombosis (DVT) is caused by blood clots that cause the blood vessels, especially veins in the thighs and calves are blocked. This occurs because blood flow is not a result of a passive activity and rest is redundant.

This will be exacerbated when the room is occupied by air-conditioned cool air which accelerates the rate of blood clots, especially in the legs.

Lead researcher Professor Richard Beasley said some office workers who suffer from the problem sitting in front of a computer screen for more than 10 hours a day. This problem is usually faced by workers in the information technology industry and call centers.

Approximately 34 percent of the 62 samples that had blood clots are those who are in a long time working with the seats, while the other 21 percent is composed of patients who travel long-haul flying, as quoted by AFP.

 DVT itself is by health experts is the formation of a blood clot in the artery, most often found in the foot. The clot can move to the heart, lungs or brain and can cause pain in the chest, shortness of breath or even death from a heart attack or stroke.

Pulmonary Consultant, Institute of Respiratory Medicine, Dr Ashari Yunus said the blood clot came from the legs, but can also originate from blood vessels in the arm, but the right heart catheter tip is placed in blood vessels. In extremely rare cases, fat or tissue from the tumor or a group of bacteria may be gathered in the arteries of the lungs.

Why pulmonary embolism is occurs?

Humans have a pair of lungs. Consistent blood pumped from the right heart to the lungs and back into the left heart. In the lungs, the blood takes oxygen and removes carbon dioxide, metabolic waste.

Arteries carry oxygen-rich blood throughout the body. Blood vessels are less oxygen carrying blood back to heart. Blood clots that occur in blood vessels to flow into the blood vessels in the heart right before going into the arteries of the lungs, there restrictions may apply.

Restrictions may occur in small arteries, but the lungs are very 'fragile' because all the blood in the body through the lungs each time round. Often, the risk of blood clots to form and spread throughout the lungs.

Symptoms:

1. Quickly exhausted.

2. Breathlessness.

3. Chest pain.

4. Pulse rate.

5. Weakness in the legs.

6. Poor appetite.

7. Cough.

8. Shortness of breath either at rest or active.

 How You Can Prevent:

1. Wearing a sock to prevent blood clots in blood vessels (deep vein thrombosis). It serves to grip the skin and vein to draw blood does not stagnate.

2. Multiply movement, especially in the legs.

3. Avoid drinking Ice.

4. Avoid opening the air conditioning was too cold.

5. Always drink the hot water.

6. Exercise.

Treatment:

Usually patients are treated with drugs that stop and slow down blood clots, such as heparin and warfarin. Both help prevent existing clots from becoming larger and stop the formation of new blood clots.

If pulmonary embolism suffered life-threatening, the doctor will usually recommend therapy thrombolytic (remove blood clots from the body with the enzyme systems that acts to solve).

So as the research told. Very scary indeed as we wouldn’t think it would be that crucial. It is advisable to limit the time of computer usage to your child. And also for parent limit your usage time.

I hope this article will help us towards a healthy family lifestyle

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My Younger Brother Wed To His Love One

On 17 september Fahmi reza my younger brother finally wed to his love one Nurul Izni.  I was happy for him. This is his next stage in life where it will leads him next to become parent. Welcome to my world. Well for both of their parents happiness shows through their face on the day.
My brother , another journey for you in this life before another parenting stage where you have to learn more about responsibilities. you must remember from now on what ever your decision will effect both of you so be more compromise. Put away any anger and be a good husband.Wish you guys happiness.
On 19 september is the wedding ceremony in my parents house. This is the day where we siblings and the big family share the happiness with the weds couples. The weather was fine seems like a blessing.The one day ceremony makes a great memories to all of us will reminisce will be talking by my families.Thank you so much to all handing hand doing a great job,  to all my uncles and aunties families for making things  happening.And to all who came along on the wedding day thank you so much for brighter the ceremony.

 

Sharing our happiness

Is It Anxiety Effect On My Child

Oh Nina my daughter my child .What is actually playing in the mind of Nina. She is now reached the age of 6 years. So she is growing up as i can recall.Looking up all the memories picture i had taken with her feels like only yesterday she was still small playing with me happily.

And now she has become an older sister to Nurdamia.I feel like she's now try to isolate further herself from her me her parent.Oh god another parenting issue i have to faced.Does she feels like me and my wife are lack of attention to her after her sister Nurdamia were born.I hope her anxiety does not exist. The fact is we were always try to become a parents that would  not neglect our family.I miss her so much.Like now she can easily sleep at my mother-in-law  without me and my wife beside her.If before she will never sleep well if she found out we were not around. When I asked she said "babah have mommy and sister".
Sadly for me to hear it,sincerely our love are equal to both of them. Perhaps this process of Nina developments are better as our first child.She must be brave so she can take care her of her sister afterwards. Maybe I'm too emotional. Should I realized that my daughter will grow up and I need to provide space for
her to be more independent.How should I know that Nina is not having a symptoms of anxiety? I fear her behavior is a result of anxiety symptom exist in her as she saw her mother are paying more attention to Nurdamia. Only God knows that for sure. As a parents what I can do is to show the same attention to all my child.
Anxiety is a general term for several disorders that cause nervousness, fear, apprehension, and worrying.
There are over 100 symptoms of anxiety.Because each person has a unique chemical make up, the type, number, intensity, and frequency of anxiety symptoms will vary from person to person. For example, one person may have just one mild anxiety symptom, whereas another may have all anxiety symptoms and to great severity. All combinations are common.What best described in child is anxious children are distressed by their inability to cope.Give the wide range of stressors associated with growing up child,It is important for the child
having an appropriate skills in coping with anxiety and other difficult emotion. As a parent we should be alert to know if this happen and act responsibly with a proper guidance and support.
Find out more about children anxiety here...........
http://www.childanxiety.net/

I stumble this e-book recently  titles  "keys to parenting your anxious child"
This e-book was written by Katharina Manassis, (MD).She is a child psychiatrist. It is about how can parents recognize anxieties that affect their child's happiness and well being, and how can they help their child overcome them?
And lots more stuff inside.Great e-book well made as it is also from compilation of other parents issues.

If you interested you can read the ebook here...(Keys To Parenting Your Anxious Child)

Hope i can learned lot's of things so i can become a responsible parent.

Can Water Be Affected

Water normal molecule

Water is an  element that is vast exist in this world. 80% of our body element include of water. That is why sauna treatment been used for slimming up our body. Sweating is one way to remove water contain in our body. But dehydration of water also not a good idea of slimming process. Well i am not going to talk about slimming here but about how effect to our behavior.
 As we know that water has a molecule and water molecule is very unique as it can vary it's shape by sound.
This research was made by a scientist name Dr Masaru Emoto. Result show water molecule after been exposed to certain sound.

After exposed to prayer

Exposed to classical music

After folk music

Exposed to harsh words "Kill"

Exposed to nice words "Love"

My conclusion is since our bodies contains of water element would it be nice to have a pretty things inside us. 

For all parents use a nice words to your child as it make the prettier things emerge inside them.

Could You "Dance In The Rain"

Well life is tough.Can't deny it. All the phase we are going through from childhood till parenting there's lot of up and down.Some say it like a theater where we are the actor.Whatever it is we must have faith in life.Through this parenting phase i must admit lots of great bachelor activities had to be given away.Sometimes i do miss it all. Hang around for hours with friends playing my old guitar.I am not saying when we become parents we can't do it anymore but there's a border line.Whatever it is just believe that what you done today is for good  deed. Not saying to be perfect but for the sake of our  heir, our legacy that is our future.
There it looks like a theater isn't it. The plot is there and you follow it.Well it's not basically through. the different is we have option here.And whatever option you made is to make it suite for your life and your family.
Here's a story from my colleague about dance in the rain. It make me stop moaning about everything and start to thinking about option.Hope the story can help you all a bit.A story about gratitude and make you think should we dance in the rain.


"The date was July 16, 2008. It was late in the afternoon and I was sitting in my hotel room in Louisville, Kentucky. I was scheduled to speak that evening for the Kentucky Association of School Administrators (KASA).
I was a little "down in the dumps." I hadn't gotten to exercise lately because of my traveling schedule and recently I'd experienced some mild bouts of vertigo (that inner ear condition that can cause the room to start spinning.) You got it...speaking and "spinning" are not good partners!
My keynote presentation was scheduled for 7:00 PM, but I had been invited to show up at 6:00 to see a performance they said I'd enjoy. Little did I know that I was about to see something I would never forget.
They introduced the young musician. Welcome...Mr. Patrick Henry Hughes. He was rolled onto the stage in his wheelchair, and began to play the piano. His fingers danced across the keys as he made beautiful music.
He then began to sing as he played, and it was even more beautiful. For some reason, however, I knew that I was seeing something special. There was this aura about him that I really can't explain and the smile...his smile was magic!
About ten minutes into Patrick's performance, someone came on the stage and said..."I'd like to share a 7-minute video titled, The Patrick Henry Hughes story." And the lights went dim.
Patrick Henry Hughes was born with no eyes, and a tightening of the joints which left him crippled for life. However, as a child, he was fitted with artificial eyes and placed in a wheelchair. Before his first birthday, he discovered the piano. His mom said, "I could hit any note on the piano, and within one or two tries, he'd get it." By his second birthday, he was playing requests (You Are My Sunshine, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star). His father was ecstatic. "We might not play baseball, but we can play music together."
Today, Patrick is a junior at the University of Louisville. His father attends classes with him and he's made nearly all A's, with the exception of 3 B's He's also a part of the 214 member marching band. You read it right...the marching band! He's a blind, wheelchair-bound trumpet player; and he and his father do it together. They attend all the band practices and the half-time performance in front of thousands. His father rolls and rotates his son around the field to the cheers of Patrick's fans. In order to attend Patrick's classes and every band practice, his father works the graveyard shift at UPS. Patrick said..."My dad's my hero."
But even more than his unbelievable musical talent, it was Patrick's "attitude of gratitude" that touched my soul. On stage, between songs, he would talk to the audience about his life and about how blessed he was. He said, "God made me blind and unable to walk. BIG DEAL! He gave me the ability...the musical gifts I have...the great opportunity to meet new people."
When his performance was over, Patrick and his father were on the stage together. The crowd rose to their feet and cheered for over five minutes. It gave me giant goose bumps!
My life was ready to meet Patrick Henry Hughes. I needed a hero, and I found one for the ages. If I live to be a hundred, I'll never forget that night, that smile, that music, but most importantly, that wonderful "attitude of gratitude."
I returned to Chicago and shared Patrick's story with my wife, my friends, and our team at Simple Truths. About two weeks later, I received a letter from a friend. He said, "Mac, I don't know who said it, but I think you'll love this quote."

picture by jaesen.com

"Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...
it's about learning how to dance in the rain!"


I thought...that's it! We all face adversity in our life. However, it's not the adversity, but how we react to it that will determine the joy and happiness in our life. During tough times, do we spend too much time feeling sorry for ourselves, or, can we, with gratitude...learn how to dance in the rain?
It almost sounds too simple to feel important, but one word...gratitude, can change your attitude, thus, your life, forever. Sarah Breathnack said it best...
"When we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that's present.......we experience heaven on earth."


Wow what a story.Stop feeling sorry for ourselves.Gratitude that's the words. there must always be something we can do sometimes not for ourselves but maybe sometimes for others.