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Sunday, July 11, 2010

Waiting For The Birth

I am sure all parents facing this situation before. And yes it's a tiring and dramatic scene . Baby birth can sometimes be earlier than the due date. And we can't estimate the exact time and day. Even as a specialist they can't give us the exact time and date.Well that's one exciting thing about waiting for our child to born.We keep asking would it be during the night or during the day. Would it be at a perfect timing while we are at home or a rush situation while working in the office.Can i make it in time to the hospital and be there by my wife side? . It's all an unanswered question waiting for the answer.
Yes i am waiting for my second child to be born. And i am now in that unanswered situation. Even i have experienced it before with my first child. Still thing make me puzzle with all of those question.At one time Braxton hicks contraction happened while i was working. Even all the preparation is complete, i still panicked. Well it's not a good gesture to have. So my opinion is waiting for birth preparation is not only the material things but also our mind and body. As for my wife things are more stressful. Well it's normal as i read through a health magazine while in hospital that a hormone change in woman body created that stress in a pregnant woman. As a husband this 9 months waiting is the time to test our patience and passion towards our family.Call it an anger management class for nine months.
This is the time as a husband to ensure that our wife in a good mental health. Learn to take things positively.
At this hour we will hear lot of opinion and stories from others that is sometimes negative that make us feel worries. Well i suggest we pray to lord so everything will be fine and stay in focus and positive manner.Trust the doctor as they act on their experiences.
For others, father to be husband stay focus and try not to let your wife experience this alone. This is  stressful time for them and we need assist to make them strong.Remember material is not the only things to be prepared but also mind, body and souls.

                                                 pictur from the.karimudin.com